butt bustin's and stubborn streaks

I don't know why but everytime Arden goes back to school after a break she gets time out. it is like she forgets the rules of school---it happens every time. Today she hit her best friend with a library book and teacher said she would not keep hands to self. As soon as I picked her up she said "do I have to get my butt busted?" I said of course and she knows the rules. She always promises never to do it again. I always think of how much kids just need reminders--just like adults do--to get back in line and straighten up.

Brock has started being the most stubborn guy. He only wants to eat Yogurt and spits almost all other foods. Even when he is nursing and wants to be done because he wants to look around he is like wrestling a bull. His grammy swatted his leg today because he would eat his yogurt but screamed on his carrots. He had a melt down. He was screaming with food in his mouth. She had to take him outside to calm him down. If you scold him--you can just forget it. He gets so upset/mad. I worry what i will have on my hands when he is older. Arden never cared and she would eat till you said stop. Not the boy. We shall just see what the future holds.